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“Advances are made by answering questions. Discoveries are made by questioning answers." Bernard Haisch

Contrary to popular misconception, you do not have to be crazy, desperate or on the brink of a meltdown to go to therapy. At the same time, therapy is not usually necessary for every little struggle life throws your way, especially if you have a strong support system of friends and family.

So how do you know when it is time to see a therapist?

Most people can benefit from therapy at some point in their lives. Sometimes the signs are obvious but, at other times, something may feel slightly off and you cannot figure out what it is. So you trudge on, trying to sustain your busy life until it sets in that that life has become unmanageable. Before it gets to this point, here are five signs which signal that you may need help from a pro:

1. Feeling sad, angry or otherwise “not yourself.”
  • Uncontrollable sadness, anger or hopelessness may be signs of a mental health issue that can improve with treatment. If you are eating or sleeping more or less than usual, withdrawing from family and friends, or just feeling “off,” talk to someone before serious problems develop that impact your quality of life. If these feelings escalate to the point that you question whether life is worth living or you have thoughts of death or suicide, reach out for help right away.

2. Abusing drugs, alcohol, food or sex to cope.
  • When you turn outside yourself to a substance or behavior to help you feel better, your coping skills may need some fine-tuning. If you feel unable to control these behaviors or you cannot stop despite negative consequences in your life, you may be struggling with addictive or compulsive behavior that requires treatment.

3. You have lost someone or something important to you.
  • Grief can be a long and difficult process to endure without the support of an expert. While not everyone needs counseling during these times, there is no shame in needing a little help to get through the loss of a loved one, a divorce or significant breakup, or the loss of a job, especially if you have experienced multiple losses in a short period of time.

4. Something traumatic has happened.
  • If you have a history of abuse, neglect or other trauma that you have not fully dealt with, or if you find yourself the victim of a crime or accident, chronic illness or some other traumatic event, the earlier you talk to someone, the faster you can learn healthy ways to cope.

5. You cannot do the things you like to do.
  • Have you stopped doing the activities you ordinarily enjoy? If so, why? Many people find that painful emotions and experiences keep them from getting out, having fun and meeting new people. This is a red flag that something is amiss in your life.

If you decide that therapy is worth a try, it does not mean you are in for a lifetime of “head shrinking.” In fact, a 2001 study in the Journal of Counseling Psychology found that most people feel better within seven to 10 visits. In another study, published in 2006 in the Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 88 percent of therapy-goers reported improvements after just one session.

Although severe mental illness may require more intensive intervention, most people benefit from short-term, goal-oriented therapy to address a specific issue or interpersonal conflict, get out of a rut or make a major life decision. The opportunity to talk uncensored to a non-biased professional without fear of judgment or repercussions can be life-changing.

You may have great insight into your own patterns and problems. You may even have many of the skills to manage them on your own. Still, there may be times when you need help – and the sooner you get it, the faster you can get back to enjoying life.
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